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Who Do You Resemble?

Many years ago, I walked regularly with a friend around Antrim Lake in north Columbus, Ohio. We enjoyed the exercise and friendly conversation as we walked. The track is 1.2 miles around and walkers can go either direction. We usually walked around two or three times.

One day, on our first trip around, another walker passed us and smiled broadly. On our second trip around, the same walker stopped us and said to me, “Are you Mona Scott?”  She was referring to the then husband/wife co-anchor with husband, Doug Adair on Channel 4 TV News. I assured her I was not Mona Scott, but she insisted that I looked just like her! I smiled inwardly because the only resemblance that I could see was that we both were blondes!

Have you ever been mistaken for someone else? They say that most people have a doppelganger, and you may have found yours. But this incident made me think that the only person I really want to resemble is Jesus Christ. Yes, I see traits in my friends that I wish I had and would do well to imitate, but mostly I want people to see me as the hands and feet of Jesus in the things I do and say each day.

I want to be caring and helpful to those I encounter who have a need… holding a door, going to the grocery for an elderly friend, checking on or taking a meal a neighbor, taking out or bringing in a trash can without being asked. Even saying hello and giving a smile can be a precious gift. I have been on the receiving end of all these activities, and I know what a blessing they are! It is just being a kind and thoughtful person! Jesus says in Matthew 25:40, “Whatever you do to the least of these, my brothers, you do it unto Me,” So, when I perform a random act of kindness, I am doing something for Jesus! Isn’t that a great thought? In this world of selfish living, let us be unselfish. Let us keep our eyes open to ways we can serve others. Let us resemble Jesus!

A Letter to My Husband in Heaven

Dear Frank,

We had a wonderful day at church last Sunday when our grandchildren, Landon and Alyssa, were baptized!  We had been looking forward to this for awhile but coordinating schedules took some doing, so we planned for last Sunday when Beth and Tim were in town.  The kids were so excited; well really, we all were excited!

Things worked perfectly, although a little different than usual.  The sanctuary was decorated for Christmas and the baptistry was hidden, so, fourteen of us assembled behind the stage, and up the steps between the second and third services. We invited several of our dearest friends to witness the baptism; friends who have watched the kids grow up.  Joe and Cheri made the trip to Columbus, as well as Roscoe and Marla, who drove 40 minutes from their new home in Baltimore.

When we first talked about this day, I had told the kids that their dad could baptize them, or even I could baptize them – in your absence, or Jay could baptize them; they could choose.  They overwhelmingly chose Jay!  That was a perfect choice since they knew him from church and summer Vacation Bible School.  Jay was great!

Jay made the kids feel comfortable in the water.  (Alyssa had told us earlier that she was a little nervous.)  Landon went first.  Jay told each one that this was the single most important day in their lives.  He said that this decision would mean that Jesus would always be with them – in this life and in the next, for eternity.  He took their confession of faith and had them repeat after him: “I believe, that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of the living God, and I choose, to follow Him.”  Jay showed them how to plug their nose so they wouldn’t choke, and then, as he immersed them, Jay said “Because of your confession of faith, I now baptize you in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, for the forgiveness of all sin and for the gift of the Holy Spirit, for now and evermore”.  What a thrill!  The Bible tells us that “when one sinner repents, there is rejoicing in Heaven” (Luke 15:7).  We all bet that you were surely rejoicing the loudest!

After the 11:10 worship service, we quickly set up the food for the light luncheon we had planned right there at the church.  Beth and I provided an easy, picnic-style lunch with subs, potato salad, coleslaw, and chips.  Dessert was a beautiful cake with rainbows on the side and a Willow Tree figure with arms open wide, named Happiness, for the top.

After most everyone had eaten, we presented the kids with a couple of gifts.  Tim, Beth and her parents gave each one a lovely cross necklace with their names and the date engraved on it.  I gave Landon and Alyssa each, their personal Bible with their names engraved on the front.

The day was a wonderfully happy time for us all.  We all acknowledge that you, Frank, played a big role in their desire to follow Jesus.  I praise God for that, and for you.

Love you, hon,
Pam

Collections

Are you a collector?  By that I mean do you collect specific objects as you see and like them?  For example, I have a friend that looks for unique teaspoons that she displays in a wooden rack.  Another friend collects teapots of all sizes and shapes.  Frank loved lighthouses and boats.  I used to collect Precious Moments figurines, Noah’s Arks, Longaberger baskets and Cat’s Meow places I had visited.  It is great fun when you first begin, and when friends help you add to your “stash”.  Maybe you’ve even had hopes of your collection becoming highly valuable and desired “someday”.  That probably will never happen and it isn’t long before finding a place to display your collection becomes a problem.  You can only find so much room for baskets and boats!  Actually, while there is nothing morally wrong with “collections”, I have decided that beginning a collection of anything is the worst thing you can do!  At some point, it becomes necessary to get rid of your collection.  Family and friends are usually not interested in the things that were once important to you.  I tried unloading some of the above items at a garage sale one time and people didn’t even look to consider a purchase!  It’s pretty sad when you can’t even give them away!

         Most of us are such blessed people.  God has bestowed the comforts of life to us and frequently, we are not even mindful of what we have.  Why is it that we find difficulty in being content with what we have?  Paul exhorts us to be content.  “I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.  I know what it is to have plenty.  I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation; whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.  I can do everything through Him who gives me strength”.  (Philippians 4:11-13)

         Jesus taught us “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, whether moths and rust destroy and where thieves break through and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in Heaven, where neither moths or rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal.  For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also”. (Matthew 6:19-21) 

           “Lord, let me be a collector of Your wisdom, a gatherer of Your grace.  Fill my reaching arms with Your love.  All the treasures I need are with You in Heaven”.